I'm new to the world or kink/bdsm and wanting to explore. Don't mistake my newness for cluelessness, I've been educating myself for a few years on D/s, bdsm and kink. I am not a doormat nor will I be. My submission is earned with time, trust, and action, not just saying what you think I want to hear.
I am demisexual, I need some type of connection with a partner before I even think of them in a sexual manner. I'm not interested in cyber play, sexting or seeing your dick unless and until I've made a connection with you.
Some of my interests include (but not limited to) ***, anal play, anal stretching/fisting, breast/nipple play, impact play, dirty talk, biting, face, tit and cunt slapping.
While I do have a big *** kink I prefer to be approached with respect.
Please don't call me pet names if I don't know you, that includes baby, princess, good girl, whore or slut etc.
I'm open to talking here to just about anyone as long as they're respectful. I'm upfront, honest and respectful and expect the same in return.
I'm looking to build a long term poly relationship involving kink and bdsm with someone looking for the same.
I'm not looking for an online dynamic, or long distance relationship, I don't care if you're willing to move, I'm not interested in long distance period. FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY, THIS IS NOT NEGOTIABLE, IT IS A FUCKING BOUNDARY! I AM NOT INTERESTED IN LONG DISTANCE ANYTHING!
I can be a challenge, especially if you come at me with a cocky attitude, it's not a trait I find attractive. I've been called a smartass masochist on more than one occasion, it's just my sense of humor and personality, not an attempt to brat.
I'm interested in men 35 and older, I have no interest in men my kids age.